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Monday, 2 May 2016

Marriage Scandal: 2face, Kate Henshaw, Freeze Defend Tiwa Savage As Fans Pummelled Her

Tiwa Savage is up against the world.

The Nigerian pop diva, has been the subject of criticism and mockery ever since news of her marital crisis hit the net. Fans have continously slapped her down following the traducing accusations heaped on her by her estranged hubby, Tee Billz and her explosive, self-redeeming interview with This Day.

Tiwa had biten back at her estranged hubby, who took to Instagram to slenderized her over their failed marriage, (read here)

Well, while many are having fun throwing jeers at her thinking she deserves it, others want it to stop. . . and have gone ahead to lead her their supports.

Cut the girl some slack please!

Kate Henshaw took to twitter to defend Tiwa Savage, saying after all that Tee Billz accused her of, she has a right of reply and granting that interview was never a wrong choice....
2face Idibia also took to twitter to warn people to stop making distasteful jokes about other people's predicament.

...and Cool FM OAP had first attacked Tiwa over what she said in the interview but after speaking to her on the phone, he backtracked. Showing her some love he wrote;
I got off the phone with @tiwasavage last night and I felt deflated. I went to bed immediately after, but sleep was far from me. I tossed and turned all night without successfully getting one wink of sleep. The 45 minutes I spoke to her haunted me, and our conversation replayed itself over and over again. She was so polite, a well brought up Yoruba lady who was visibly hurt, but not for once was she rude to me. Our conversation was mostly in Yoruba and I couldn't help but notice that despite the fact that she wasn't happy with my previous post, she still addressed me with the 'e' the Yoruba tribe employ, when speaking to older people. Her tone was calm and she passed her message across to me with the utmost courtesy, showcasing her pristine upbringing. 
I sensed pain in her voice and it was that pain that kept me up. Tiwa is a good woman, a strong woman. I could see that she still cared about TJ when she asked if I had spoken to him. I'm going to be 40 in a few days, and if there is anything I give myself credit for, it's the fact that I am a good judge of character. What I felt when speaking to her was genuine. I wanted to slap myself for being bit insensitive in my last post but, I guess it's too late for regrets now, it's gone along with her interview and his posts, into the unforgiving archives of the Internet, never to be forgotten. 
As I started my drive towards @coolfmlagos this morning to preach on the gospel show #PraiseJam where I will be speaking till 11am, it occurred to me that we all have to stop blaming either party and focus on praying for both of them. T billz and Tiwa are both at a fragile state, and it is so unfortunate that this matter has been brought before a fanged public ready to tear us all up for their amusement. Like @official2baba said, don't make jokes about a serious matter, instead, remember them in your prayers. 
I love you Tiwa, I love you Billz, there is a light at the end of this tunnel, GOD is your strength and he will see you through this!
What he wrote initially....
Dear Tiwa,
I have nothing but love for you, but after I watched all 45 mins of your interview.... ..Tiwa, I know it hurts when a relationship breaks down, and those accusations T Billz made were extremely hurtful, nonetheless, I believe you could have employed caution when responding, since according to you, he was unstable and suicidal. In law, if for instance, you walk in on your man in bed with another woman and you shoot him on the spot, you could get a lighter sentence, if your legal counsel argues provocation. On the flip side, if you walk out of the scene to get a gun and then launch an attack, it's now considered premeditated. 
The fact that you granted a 'pitch perfect' interview, with a flawless visual background and superb audio quality, in my opinion looks a bit premeditated. 
If you had denied all his accusations and asked to swear on ayelala or amadioha or sango as against the lie detector test, since on no instance has a polygraph ever been used in Nigeria, and if afterwards you had requested for privacy, as you deal with such a sensitive issue, this matter would have been laid to rest. How are you going to tell Nigerians not to talk about issues you 'used your own hand' to make public? This could only serve to further delay your healing. 
Even though my prayer is for your issues to be resolved and for joy to return to your home, the breakdown of a marriage is not the end of the world, I have been through it and my world did not end. However, do you realize that the interview you gave could lead to the end of TJ's world? Who is now going to hire, work with, or have any business dealings with an unstable, adulterous, fraudulent, cocaine sniffer who cannot manage money and has his priorities misplaced? Whether you like it or not, that is what the interview has delineated him to be. In furtherance to this, if he was suicidal before, this interview is only going to make him even more suicidal! 
I know you both love Jamil so in all this drama, lets be very careful to shield him, as the Internet never forgets and his friends and classmates will always have his father's tweets along with your interview as points of reference. 

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